
After five straight days of eating and running, shooting and more eating, we have finally reached the last day of the shoot. Despite Tony’s shaky start and the nagging head cold I’ve been nursing all week—not to mention the jet-lag and heat we’ve all had to endure—everything has gone pretty smoothly and the crew seems more than happy with what they’ve got in the can. For my part, it’s been a blast sharing old haunts and a couple of new finds with people who can really appreciate it. I can tell these guys are enjoying the food simply by the sight of their plates piled high with string hoppers, hoppers, sambols and curries every morning at the breakfast buffet. Of course, there are also a lot of dishes they have not tasted, and many great locations where I would have liked to take them. But for a one-hour program shot in six days, I feel like we’ve done Sri Lanka justice. For our grand finalé feast I have obviously saved the best for last.
I initiated this blog with a story about Leela, my Aunty Dora’s maid for 32 years, who retired during my last extended stay on the island. Along with my cousin Sam and his family, I accompanied Leela back to her village near Chilaw, and enjoyed an incredible home-cooked meal prepared by her relations there. The vegetables were plucked right off plants on their property; a beautiful patch of land nestled between jungle and river, and cooked in traditional clay pots over an open hearth. I doubt that many Colombo urbanites had experienced a meal quite like this—much less any Westerners. Months ago, when the show first contacted me, one of my initial ideas was to bring Tony here. Chilaw, a 3-hour drive up the coast from Colombo, was especially renowned for its huge lagoon crabs, which Leela would be making into and incendiary curry for us today.

crabicide
Being a Sunday, however, the local fishermen’s’ day off, we had to cheat a little and buy the crabs a day earlier. Since a lack of rain in Chilaw also meant less crabs, some friends in Negombo, which was on the way, purchased 15 hulking specimens for us and kept them alive since dead crabs tend to spoil very quickly. We had another issue when we reached Leela’s place. This devout Buddhist lady absolutely refused to kill any live creatures, so we paid a local boy to act as the executioner. I don’t know which is a better way to go—being steamed alive as they do to the famous blue crabs in Baltimore, or being whacked between the eyes with a blunt object and pulled apart while you’re still dazed and trying to crawl away. As a cancer myself, I can’t help but ponder the fate of my fellow crabs, though this hardly impedes my love of a dish like Chilaw crab curry.

In addition to the crab curry, Leela, her two nieces and a couple of other relatives were preparing chicken curry; rice; dahl (paripoo, the familiar red lentils stewed in coconut milk); ash plantain, the flower of the banana tree; jackfruit; gotu kola sambol, a tangy green herb chopped and cut with shredded coconut, salt and lime; and cashew curry, another typical Sri Lankan dish that I haven’t encountered anywhere else. With so many dishes for so many mouths and not even a stovetop on which to operate, the cooks immediately got to work when we arrived with the crabs at about 9 in the morning. But first, the diminutive Leela, whom I had not seen in over a year, greeted me with flowers. The country air and simple living had been good to her, and even the pronounced limp she used to carry now gave way to a spring in her step.
For the first time of the shoot, Tony stayed with us all day, but kept away from the backyard kitchen. “Hey, if you came over, I wouldn’t want you in my kitchen,” he joked. Actually, for the trip down south he also hung around, but he and I were dropped off at a nearby hotel bar to relax while the crew shot B-roll and food prep. No booze awaited us at Leela’s, but rather fresh toddy, the sap of the coconut palm, which is distilled into the local liquor of choice, Arrack. I find the slightly sweet taste of Arrack to be somewhere between brandy and Hennessy, but toddy is altogether different. One of the boys scaled a tree on the property and tapped a fresh jugful, which went down sweet, cool, and frothy.

cashew curry cooking in a clay pot
As three clay pots bubbled on open fires, the women chopped vegetables on bamboo mats on the ground and grinded spices on an old-fashioned grinding stone. My cousin Sam and I took the opportunity to give Tony his first taste of rural Sri Lanka. Behind the small house, all kinds of edibles grew—from gotu kola and jackfruit to plantains, manioc, and cashews. Even a small plot of rice had been planted in a clearing. Behind this luxuriant garden, a river gently snaked by, its sloping banks soggy from a recent shower. As we proceeded down for a closer look, the treacherous footing caused Sam to take a spill. Tony ditched his flip-flops for the surety of bare feet, which were soon covered with mud. Somehow Todd the cameraman, who is prone to mishaps, stayed clean that time as did I. Meanwhile, Jerry the other cameraman had his lens all over the food. I left him in the good hands of Sam’s kids, Shanaka and Shalini, who acted as translators with the cooks.

Sam's kids -- Shalini and Shanaka

Jerry shoots the food preparation
By around 1 in the afternoon, Leela’s crew started bringing out the food. They set up two tables together on the veranda, and soon, it was covered with 8 different clay pots. I took Tony down the buffet line explaining each dish as he served a bit onto his plate. He took a bigger portion of the crab curry, which had certainly been hyped to death. Though the whole crabs had been broken up, their bright orange shells contrasting against the fiery red gravy and green murungu leaves (a special addition for crab curry) made for an impressive and tantalizing sight, which tasted as good as it looked. This time I felt like a proud Jewish mother when Tony returned for seconds.

Leela's Chilaw Crab Curry
It was a unique treat to have Chilaw Crab Curry as only Leela can make it. My only criticism would be that she didn’t use enough chili, since Tony and the rest of the crew were able to eat it. Poor guy, he comes to my country sick, and just when he’s got his stomach back, I’m trying to put him back on Immodium. I think it’s because I never got a chance to challenge him to a raw chili eating competition. To thank Leela for an amazing meal and her family’s generous hospitality, I gave her a copy of my book, Rice & Curry: Sri Lankan Home Cooking (blurb.com) in which she contributed two recipes, one of which, of course, was the crab curry.

Rice & Curry: Sri Lankan Home Cooking p. 37

Leela and I






I’m so excited to have found your blog after watching No Reservations!
I’m a massive fan of Sri Lankan food and this episode of the series was excellent. Can’t wait to pick up a copy of your book.
Michelle:
Checked out your blog. Awfully nice of you for the kind words. If you need any recipes or tips feel free to holla!
peace,
Skiz
Loved the show.. you were great in it…. held your own.
We love crab and crab curries.
Please please send me the Chilaw Crab Curry recipe.
Chris:
Thanks for the kind words. You will find Leela’s crab curry recipe in one of the first entries on the blog. The one ingredient you’re not going to get in the U.S. is the murungu leaves, but it will still come out fine without that.
Happy cooking and eating!
Skiz
Chris:
I just discovered that I never replied to your post here about the crab curry. The recipe is located on my blog–one of the first posts in a story about Leela.
Best,
Skiz
Meeshtastic’s blog is da bomb, son!
HI Sarath!
Being a Sri Lankan, and married to a Sri Lankan, discerned the culture by livng there and learning the quality of life at root level (in a good sense of Sri Lankan hospitality) upward, we must say it was awesome and great of you, havng taken Tony there! It was overdue, having seen so many countries on his list. Tony’s show is a form of entertainment for us on every Monday, and we are great fans, it was so ironic as I had thought of how we could invite him to Sri Lanka. Thanks to you, he made it there and we are glad. Kushil was surprised to learn from us and his other friends in the USA, Tony’s popularity. We helped him to discern of the guy, by sending some links of Tony, so he’s prepped when he meets him!
The show was one of the best for Asia, it had many flavors to it in every sense and Sri Lanka was portrayed to stand on its’ own!
I would love to know where we can purchase your book in the U.S. If you make it to Las Vegas, and time provides, do connect with us if you wish.
M. Blessings,
Giovanni & Dee.
Thanks Giovanni & Dee:
I had a great time working on the show, and I’m glad you liked it. I think Kushil’s part was one of the stronger segments, and was glad to be able to arrange that. Of course, there was a lot they omitted, but time is always a big factor in these cases. I think in general, people got a positive impression of a country that we love so much.
As for my book, it is currently available at http://www.blurb.com pending a real book deal
It’s called Rice & Curry: Sri Lankan Home Cooking by S.H. Fernando Jr.
I would be happy to look you up if I am ever in Vegas. Thanks for the offer.
all the best,
Sarath
Thanks for checking out my blog! The kind words were well deserved!
I’m so down to take you up on picking your brain for recipes!
Brain pick question 1: Leela’s crab dish is tempting me-do you think it would be difficult to reproduce and would blue crab work?
Not at all Michelle. In fact, the crab curry recipe is posted at the beginning on my blog after a story about Leela.
Wow, this blog was a surprise find!
After watching the No Reservations episode, I frantically forwarded it to my friends abroad, hoping to convince them to visit because of the food. Hopefully this attempt works, hehe. I must say, a job well done – I particularly enjoyed watching the biriyani and crab sessions.
I was hunting for information about Sri Lankan biriyani’s and stumbled across your blog entry for Day 5 – nicely written. Do you have a recipe for your favourite version of biriyani?
Cheers, and all the best with your book deal etc.
Thanks, Dims. Per your request, I’m going to post my home version of biriyani this week.
Best,
Skiz
Hi, I’m going to be in Sri Lanka this summer, will I be able to make reservations with Leela? does she cater to other people?
Ha! I think Leela’s going to have to open a restaurant after this show. Actually she is way out in the country, past Chilaw, a good 2-3 hour drive from Colombo. BUT, if you go to the beginning of my blog there is a story about Leela and you will find her crab curry recipe there. Have fun in SL!
Best,
Skiz
Hi,
I was googling Sri Lankan recipes after watching Tony’s show and your blog came up!
The food looked delicious and I wish they were Sri Lankan restaurants in the Boston area. I don’t know of any.
Anyway, I’ll be purchasing your book because I want to try some of those recipes. I hope I can find the ingredients and I hope they are not too difficult to make.
Thanks for your comments. I know there are Indian stores in the Boston area so you should have no problem finding the one crucial ingredient to Sri Lankan rice and curry–fresh curry leaves. The rest is all there. I recommend making a batch of your own curry powder first or you can try my home-made brand which I’m selling via mail order through the blog.
best,
Skiz
Which bookshop in thr upperwest manhatten can i browse through your book
If you click on the icon of my book on the rice and curry blog (the first thing on the right hand side) it will take you to the blurb site, and then you can preview the first 15 pages of the book on your computer without having to go to any bookstore. You can also order the book right from there.
I am only interested in your currypowder recipe is there any website where I can view it
Sorry. It’s not on the web. You can purchase my curry powder at Kalustyans on 28th St. in Manhattan
Best,
Skiz
Wow! I can’t believe I was able to find your blog. After
watching The Sri Lankan episode I kept googling “chill out crab curry” with no success lol! I can’t wait to put the recipe to the test! I see you were a writer for the Source and also an artist. Your music’s pretty dope. Keep it up!
Peace…
Thanks, Mark. You will find the Chilaw Crab Curry recipe early on in my blog in a post about Leela. You’re not going to be able to find some of the ingredients, but definitley get the curry leaves.
peace,
Skiz
Hi
Loved your posts on no reservations. Im making my first trip to SL from chennai next month and am soooo looking forward to the food. would appreciate any suggestions/ must try places in Colombo/Galle/Una/Hikkaduwa.
Cheers and peace!
aravind
Dear Skiz, My friend Shanthi told me about the Sri Lanka episode of travel channel just yesterday and I am hoping it will be on again soon. I went online for that very reason and I dont know how I have never come across your blog. What a pleasant surprise. I am an American married to a Sri Lankan for 40+ years and have been trying to perfect Sri Lankan cooking and having a great time doing it. There is always something to learn and thats why I will be purchasing your book asap. Thank you for all the work you put into this blog and I look forward to visiting often. Once you have eaten Sri
Lankan food your hooked for life, at least 40 years! If your ever in Queens, NY stop by the Vihara in Queens Village and say hi to my husband Thissa who volunteers there most days.
Best Wishes, Maureen